My youngest feeding the ducks. |
I’ve been in a coma.
Not a regular coma, but a living one.
I once read a story about a young man who was in a coma. His body couldn’t move but his mind was
awake. He could hear everything people
were saying, but he couldn’t move his body, open his eyes, or give his family a
signal. That’s what my life has been
like. The past two years have been an
awakening where all parts of my self are beginning to move. I found out that my youngest child has a
moderate learning disability and my oldest has a mild one. Both are highly intelligent which makes it
even more frustrating. In addition I
found out that certain learning disabilities are inherited. Hmm, I know I sucked at school, but I knew
how to read at an early age and managed to get a Masters degree. My lightbulb moment wasn’t until I went to a local
learning disabilities conference. While
there I heard success stories and saw techniques used to help young people with
learning differences. I learned more
about dyslexia and other learning differences including processing disorders. In
the near future I am going to get a professional evaluation to pinpoint my specific
issues (processing differences I suspect) but now know my genius was always
there, I just didn’t have the tools to tap into it. Back
in the 80’s when I was in school it was a definitely a one size fits all
educational paradigm. I desperately
wanted to learn and grasp what I was being taught but it was a struggle. I stuck with a college major I could manage
but knew that there was more I wanted to know and learn. Like the guy in the coma, I could hear and
sense a greater calling for myself but the rest of me was paralyzed. Well, I am awake now thankfully because I’ve
had to deal with my children’s difficulties.
I am awake now because I need to know how I could better help my
kids. I am awake now so I can help
others. I am awake now so I can fly.